We have sex but it doesn't last long and we always have the light out. We do pleasure each other but he comes too soon and I take ages.I like things rough and fast but he won't because he thinks he's hurting me and, of course, he comes too quickly.
What shall we do?Julie Says:There’s obviously a bit of miscommunication between you and your partner. Your letter is very short but I'm still getting confusing signals from you that you like it ‘rough and fast’ - yet you're dissatisfied when sex doesn't last that long. It sounds as though you’re playing guessing games with each other in the bedroom, and if you both want to gain more from your relationship then that needs to stop.
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